ਕਹਾਉਤਾਂ 18
1 ੧ ਜੋ ਦੂਸਰਿਆਂ ਨਾਲੋਂ ਅਲੱਗ ਹੋ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਉਹ ਆਪਣੀ ਇੱਛਾ ਪੂਰੀ ਕਰਨਾ ਚਾਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ, ਅਤੇ ਉਹ ਸਭ ਪ੍ਰਕਾਰ ਦੀ ਖਰੀ ਬੁੱਧ ਦੇ ਨਾਲ ਵੈਰ ਰੱਖਦਾ ਹੈ।
Those who separate themselves [from other people] think [only] about those things that they are interested in; [if they would continually associate with] those who have good judgment/sense, they would constantly disagree/quarrel with them.
Foolish people do not want to understand [anything]; they only want to (express their [own] opinions/say what they think) [IDM].
Whenever people do wicked things, others will despise them; when people do things that cause themselves to no [longer] be honored, they will be disgraced [also].
What wise people say is [like] a deep ocean [that you can never get to the bottom of] [MET], and it [refreshes us like water from] a rapidly flowing stream.
It is not good [for a judge] to decide matters in favor of those who (are guilty/have done wicked things) and to not do what is just for those who (are innocent/have not done what is wrong).
When foolish people [SYN] start arguments, [it is as though] they [SYN] are requesting/inviting someone to flog/whip them.
What foolish people [MTY] say causes them to be ruined; their [own] words are [like] a trap [MET] [that catches/seizes] them.
[People enjoy listening to] what gossips say like [SIM] [they enjoy] tasty food; they [accept what gossips tell them like] [MET] they swallow tasty food.
People who are lazy while they work are [just as bad] as [IDM] those who destroy things.
Yahweh [MTY] is [like] a strong tower [MET]; righteous people [can] go to him and be safe [like they can run to a tower to be safe].
Rich people [are protected because they have] a lot of money [PRS] like a city is protected because it has a high wall surrounding it [SIM].
Proud people are on the road to being ruined, but being humble leads to being honored.
Those who reply to someone before that person has finished speaking are foolish; doing that is disgraceful.
14 ੧੪ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਦਾ ਆਤਮਾ ਬਿਮਾਰੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਉਹ ਨੂੰ ਸੰਭਾਲਦਾ ਹੈ, ਪਰ ਜਦੋਂ ਆਤਮਾ ਹਾਰ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਕੌਣ ਸਹਿ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ?
A desire to [continue to] live can sustain someone when he is sick; if he loses that desire, he (cannot endure it/will become very discouraged) when he is sick [RHQ].
Intelligent people [are always wanting to] learn more; wise people [SYN] are not content with what they already know.
If you take a gift to an important person, that will open the way to allow you to talk to him.
17 ੧੭ ਜਿਹੜਾ ਮੁਕੱਦਮੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਪਹਿਲਾਂ ਬੋਲਦਾ ਹੈ ਓਹੋ ਸੱਚਾ ਜਾਪਦਾ ਹੈ, ਪਰ ਫੇਰ ਉਹ ਦਾ ਵਿਰੋਧੀ ਆ ਕੇ ਉਹ ਦੀ ਭੇਤ ਖੋਲਦਾ ਹੈ।
The first person to present his case in court seems right, but when (someone else/his opponent) begins to ask him questions, [it may become clear that what he said was not true].
If two influential/important people are arguing, [someone can] settle the matter by (casting lots/throwing marked stones to decide who is right).
19 ੧੯ ਰੁੱਸੇ ਹੋਏ ਭਰਾ ਨੂੰ ਮਨਾਉਣਾ ਪੱਕੇ ਸ਼ਹਿਰ ਦੇ ਜਿੱਤਣ ਨਾਲੋਂ ਵੀ ਔਖਾ ਹੈ, ਝਗੜੇ ਕਿਲੇ ਦੇ ਅਰਲਾਂ ਵਰਗੇ ਹੁੰਦੇ ਹਨ।
If you help relatives, they will [protect you] like [SIM] a strong wall [protects a city], but if you quarrel with them, [that will separate you from them] like bars on a city gate [separate the city from those who want to enter it] [MET].
20 ੨੦ ਆਦਮੀ ਦਾ ਢਿੱਡ ਉਹ ਦੇ ਮੂੰਹ ਦੀਆਂ ਗੱਲਾਂ ਦੇ ਫਲ ਨਾਲ ਭਰਦਾ ਹੈ, ਅਤੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਬੁੱਲ੍ਹਾਂ ਦੀ ਪ੍ਰਾਪਤੀ ਨਾਲ ਉਹ ਰੱਜਦਾ ਹੈ।
People are happy when they hear others say [MTY] something that is good, [like] they are happy when they eat food that is good [MET].
What you say can cause others to be killed or it can cause them to [continue to] live; [so] those who like [to talk a lot] must (accept the consequences/realize that what they say can cause much harm).
If you marry a [good] woman, that is [like] finding a wonderful thing; [it shows that] Yahweh is pleased with you.
[It is necessary for] poor [people] to speak politely when they request [rich people to do something for them], but rich [people] reply very impolitely when poor people speak to them.
24 ੨੪ ਬਹੁਤ ਸਾਰੇ ਮਿੱਤਰ ਨੁਕਸਾਨ ਦਾ ਕਾਰਨ ਹਨ, ਪਰ ਅਜਿਹਾ ਵੀ ਇੱਕ ਮਿੱਤਰ ਹੈ ਜੋ ਭਰਾ ਨਾਲੋਂ ਵੀ ਵੱਧ ਨੇੜੇ ਰਹਿੰਦਾ ਹੈ।
There are [some] people who [only] pretend to be friends [with us], but there are [some] friends who are more loyal than members of our families.
