ਅਫ਼ਸੀਆਂ ਨੂੰ 5
(Imitate/Behave like) God, because he loves you who are [as though you were] [SIM] his children.
2 ੨ ਅਤੇ ਪਿਆਰ ਨਾਲ ਚੱਲੋ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਮਸੀਹ ਨੇ ਵੀ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਨਾਲ ਪਿਆਰ ਕੀਤਾ, ਅਤੇ ਸਾਡੇ ਲਈ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਨੂੰ ਪਰਮੇਸ਼ੁਰ ਦੇ ਅੱਗੇ ਭੇਟ ਅਤੇ ਬਲੀਦਾਨ ਕਰਕੇ ਸੁਗੰਧ ਦੀ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਦੇ ਦਿੱਤਾ।
Do everything in a way that shows that you love [people], just like Christ loved us and willingly died for us. He offered himself [to God as a sacrifice] that was very pleasing to God, [just like Jewish priests offered] sweet-smelling [animal] sacrifices to God [MET].
Do not commit any kind of immoral act [DOU], and do not desire more things than you need. Do not [act in such a way that others could] even (spread rumors/talk) about your acting in such ways, because it is not appropriate/fitting for God’s people to do such things.
4 ੪ ਅਤੇ ਨਾ ਬੇਸ਼ਰਮੀ, ਨਾ ਮੂਰਖਤਾ ਦੇ ਬੋਲ ਅਥਵਾ ਠੱਠੇ ਬਾਜ਼ੀ ਜੋ ਅਯੋਗ ਹਨ ਅਤੇ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੋਣੀਆਂ ਚਾਹੀਦੀਆਂ ਪਰ ਧੰਨਵਾਦ ਹੋਇਆ ਕਰੇ।
Do not use obscene/shameful language when you talk to people. Do not talk foolishly. Do not use vulgar/indecent language, because it is not appropriate/fitting that God’s people should talk like that. Instead, tell people how much you thank [God for all he does for you].
5 ੫ ਕਿਉਂ ਜੋ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇਸ ਗੱਲ ਨੂੰ ਜਾਣਦੇ ਹੋ ਕਿ ਹਰਾਮਕਾਰ ਜਾਂ ਭਰਿਸ਼ਟ ਜਾਂ ਲੋਭੀ ਮਨੁੱਖ ਜੋ ਮੂਰਤੀ ਪੂਜਕ ਹੈ, ਮਸੀਹ ਅਤੇ ਪਰਮੇਸ਼ੁਰ ਦੇ ਰਾਜ ਵਿੱਚ ਵਾਰਿਸ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੋ ਸਕਦਾ।
You can be sure of this: No person who is sexually immoral or who acts indecently/shamefully will be among those people whom God rules over [MET] [in heaven]. Neither will those who desire more things than they need. Such people worship their possessions [instead of worshipping God].
6 ੬ ਕੋਈ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਵਿਅਰਥ ਗੱਲਾਂ ਨਾਲ ਧੋਖਾ ਨਾ ਦੇਵੇ ਕਿਉਂ ਜੋ ਇਹਨਾਂ ਦੇ ਕਾਰਨ ਪਰਮੇਸ਼ੁਰ ਦਾ ਕੋਪ ਅਣ-ਆਗਿਆਕਾਰੀ ਦੇ ਪੁੱਤਰਾਂ ਉੱਤੇ ਪੈਂਦਾ ਹੈ।
Do not let anyone deceive you by suggesting that [God will really] not [punish people who commit such sins], because God certainly will punish [MTY] those who habitually disobey him [by doing such things].
So, do not commit the same kinds of deeds that such people do,
8 ੮ ਕਿਉਂ ਜੋ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਅੱਗੇ ਹਨ੍ਹੇਰਾ ਸੀ ਪਰ ਹੁਣ ਪ੍ਰਭੂ ਵਿੱਚ ਹੋ ਕੇ ਚਾਨਣ ਹੋ, ਸੋ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਚਾਨਣ ਦੇ ਪੁੱਤਰਾਂ ਦੀ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਚਲੋ।
because formerly you [did not know God’s truth] [MET], [as those who] are in darkness [do not know what is around them]. But now [it is as though] you are in the light [MET] [because you know God’s truth] because of your relationship with the Lord [Jesus]. So do those things that those who know God’s truth [MET] should do.
Keep in mind that [as] light [MET] causes [good things to grow], those who know God’s truth should do those things that are good, righteous, and honest.
And as [you do that], try (to find out/to discover) what pleases the Lord.
Do not do the worthless deeds that the people (who are in [spiritual] darkness/who do not know God’s truth) [MET] do. Instead, let others know that those people’s deeds are worthless.
It is shameful for God’s people to even talk [among themselves about] those evil deeds that evil people do secretly and habitually.
13 ੧੩ ਪਰ ਸਾਰੇ ਕੰਮ ਜਿਹਨਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਉਜਾਗਰ ਕੀਤਾ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਉਹ ਸਭ ਚਾਨਣ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਪਰਗਟ ਕੀਤੇ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ, ਕਿਉਂਕਿ ਜੋ ਸਭ ਕੁਝ ਪਰਗਟ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਉਹ ਚਾਨਣ ਹੈ।
But when [God’s people rebuke those evil people about their deeds, it will be clear/evident how evil their deeds really are, just like] everything exposed to the light becomes visible {as light [MET] reveals everything [that we cannot see in the darkness]}.
14 ੧੪ ਇਸ ਲਈ ਉਹ ਆਖਦਾ ਹੈ, ਹੇ ਸੌਣ ਵਾਲਿਆ, ਜਾਗ ਅਤੇ ਮੁਰਦਿਆਂ ਵਿੱਚੋਂ ਜੀ ਉੱਠ! ਤਾਂ ਮਸੀਹ ਦਾ ਚਾਨਣ ਤੇਰੇ ਉੱਤੇ ਚਮਕੇਗਾ।
[Just like something on which a light shines reflects that light] [MET], [whoever has learned God’s truth reveals that truth to others]. That is why [we believers] say this: You who are not aware of your sins, become aware of them [MET]! It is as though you are sound asleep, so wake up! Be like dead people who are becoming alive again! Christ will cause you to know God’s truth, just like a light [MET] that shines causes people to know what is in the darkness.
So be very careful how you behave. Do not behave as foolish people do. Instead, behave as wise people do.
Use your time carefully, because these days [MTY] [people do] extremely evil [deeds].
So do not be foolish. Instead, understand what the Lord [Jesus] wants you to do, [and do it]!
Do not become drunk by drinking alcoholic drinks, since people are unable to control their behavior when they are drunk. Instead, let [God’s] Spirit control your [behavior] at all times [MTY].
19 ੧੯ ਅਤੇ ਜ਼ਬੂਰ, ਭਜਨ ਅਤੇ ਆਤਮਿਕ ਗੀਤ ਗਾ ਕੇ ਇੱਕ ਦੂਜੇ ਨਾਲ ਗੱਲਾਂ ਕਰੋ ਅਤੇ ਮਨ ਲਗਾ ਕੇ ਪ੍ਰਭੂ ਲਈ ਗਾਉਂਦੇ ਵਜਾਉਂਦੇ ਰਿਹਾ ਕਰੋ।
Sing to each other (Psalms/songs [with words from the] Scriptures), sing [other] songs [that the congregation knows], and songs [that God’s] Spirit [gives you]. Sing these Psalms and other songs sincerely to [praise] the Lord [Jesus].
At all times thank God, who is our [heavenly] Father, for everything, especially for what the Lord Jesus Christ [MTY] [has done for you].
[Humbly] submit yourselves to each other because you reverence Christ, [who is our example].
Because husbands have authority over [MET] their wives, just as all of us believers form one group [under the authority of] Christ, you women should submit yourselves to [the authority of your] husbands just as you submit yourselves to the Lord [Jesus]. He is the one who saves all his people [from the guilt of their sins].
24 ੨੪ ਇਸ ਲਈ, ਜਿਵੇਂ ਕਲੀਸਿਯਾ ਮਸੀਹ ਦੇ ਅਧੀਨ ਹੈ, ਇਸੇ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਪਤਨੀਆਂ ਵੀ ਹਰ ਗੱਲ ਵਿੱਚ ਆਪਣਿਆਂ ਪਤੀਆਂ ਦੇ ਅਧੀਨ ਰਹਿਣ।
Just like all believers submit themselves to [the authority of] Christ, the women must submit themselves completely to the [authority of] their husbands.
25 ੨੫ ਹੇ ਪਤੀਓ, ਆਪਣੀਆਂ ਪਤਨੀਆਂ ਨਾਲ ਪਿਆਰ ਰੱਖੋ, ਜਿਵੇਂ ਮਸੀਹ ਨੇ ਵੀ ਕਲੀਸਿਯਾ ਨਾਲ ਪਿਆਰ ਕੀਤਾ ਅਤੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਨੂੰ ਉਸ ਦੇ ਲਈ ਦੇ ਦਿੱਤਾ।
Each of you husbands, love your wife as Christ loved all of [us who would become] believers, with the result that he willingly died for our sake,
in order that he might (set us apart for himself/cause us to belong to him). That is, by [revealing his] message [to us], he wanted to [remove the guilt of our sin, just like people remove dirt from something] by washing it [MET].
27 ੨੭ ਅਤੇ ਉਹ ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੇ ਲਈ ਇਹੋ ਜਿਹੀ ਪਰਤਾਪਵਾਨ ਕਲੀਸਿਯਾ ਤਿਆਰ ਕਰੇ ਜਿਹ ਦੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਕਲੰਕ ਜਾਂ ਬੱਜ ਜਾਂ ਕੋਈ ਹੋਰ ਅਜਿਹਾ ਔਗੁਣ ਨਾ ਹੋਵੇ ਸਗੋਂ ਉਹ ਪਵਿੱਤਰ ਅਤੇ ਨਿਰਮਲ ਹੋਵੇ।
[Christ did that] in order that he might cause all of us believers to be a glorious group of people that belong to him, people that do not have any moral flaws/imperfections, but instead might be completely pure [DOU] when he gathers us (to his presence/to himself).
28 ੨੮ ਇਸੇ ਤਰ੍ਹਾਂ ਪਤੀਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਚਾਹੀਦਾ ਹੈ ਜੋ ਆਪਣੀਆਂ ਪਤਨੀਆਂ ਨਾਲ ਅਜਿਹਾ ਪਿਆਰ ਰੱਖਣ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਸਰੀਰਾਂ ਨਾਲ ਰੱਖਦੇ ਹਨ। ਜਿਹੜਾ ਆਪਣੀ ਪਤਨੀ ਨਾਲ ਪਿਆਰ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਉਹ ਆਪਣੇ ਹੀ ਨਾਲ ਪਿਆਰ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ।
In the same way, each man should love his wife as he loves his own body. Men who love their wives, [it is as though] they love themselves.
29 ੨੯ ਕਿਉਂ ਜੋ ਕਿਸੇ ਨੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਸਰੀਰ ਨਾਲ ਕਦੇ ਵੈਰ ਨਹੀਂ ਕੀਤਾ ਸਗੋਂ ਉਹ ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਪਾਲਦਾ ਪਲੋਸਦਾ ਹੈ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਮਸੀਹ ਵੀ ਕਲੀਸਿਯਾ ਨੂੰ ਪਾਲਦਾ ਪਲੋਸਦਾ ਹੈ।
This is shown by the fact that no one ever hated his own body. Instead, he feeds his own body and cares for it, just like Christ also cares for all us believers. We have become one group of believers that belongs to him [MET].
[What someone has written in the Scriptures about people who marry is this], [When] a man and [a] woman [marry], they should ([permanently] leave/no longer live with) their fathers and mothers. They should be joined [as husband and] wife, and the two of them shall become [as though they were] one [MET] person.
It is very difficult to understand the meaning of these things that God has now revealed to me, but [I am telling you that] those words [also] refer to [the relationship between] Christ and all those who belong to him.
33 ੩੩ ਪਰ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਵਿੱਚੋਂ ਵੀ ਹਰੇਕ ਆਪੋ-ਆਪਣੀ ਪਤਨੀ ਨਾਲ ਆਪਣੇ ਹੀ ਜਿਹਾ ਪਿਆਰ ਕਰੇ, ਅਤੇ ਪਤਨੀ ਆਪਣੇ ਪਤੀ ਦਾ ਆਦਰ ਕਰੇ।
However, as for you(pl), each man must love his wife just as he loves himself, and each woman must respect her husband.
