1 Korintusi 7
1 A mik felől pedig írtatok nékem, jó a férfiúnak asszonyt nem illetni.
Now [I will reply to] the things that you wrote to me about. It is good for people not to get married.
2 De a paráznaság miatt minden férfiúnak tulajdon felesége legyen, és minden asszonynak tulajdon férje.
But because many people are committing sexual immorality, [which God detests], every man should have his own wife [with whom he can have sexual relations], and every woman should have her own husband [with whom she can have sexual relations].
3 A feleségének adja meg a férj a köteles jóakaratot; hasonlóképen a feleség is a férjének.
Every man must continue having sexual relations [EUP] with his wife, and every woman must continue having sexual relations with her husband.
4 A feleség nem ura a maga testének, hanem a férje; hasonlóképen a férj sem ura a maga testének, hanem a felesége.
A man’s wife does not have the right over her own body [to be the only one to decide about having sexual relations with her husband]. Instead, her husband also has a right [to decide about that]. Similarly, a woman’s husband does not have the right over his own body [to be the only one to decide about having sexual relations with his wife]. Instead, his wife also has a right [to decide about that].
5 Ne foszszátok meg egymást, hanemha egyenlő akaratból bizonyos ideig, hogy ráérjetek a bőjtölésre és az imádkozásra, azután ismét együvé térjetek, hogy a Sátán meg ne kísértsen titeket, mivelhogy magatokat meg nem tartóztathatjátok.
You may refuse [to have sexual relations with] each other [EUP] only if you both first agree to do that for a short time, in order that you may both have more time to pray. Then after that, begin having sexual relations again [EUP] in order that Satan will not be able to persuade you [to have sex with someone else] because you are unable to control your sexual desires.
6 Ezt pedig kedvezésképen mondom, nem parancsolat szerint.
I am telling you these things to say that [God] allows [you to get married, but he] does not say that you must [get married].
7 Mert szeretném, ha minden ember úgy volna, mint én magam is; de kinek kinek tulajdon kegyelmi ajándéka vagyon Istentől, egynek így, másnak pedig úgy.
I myself wish that all people would stay [unmarried/single], as I am. But God has enabled each person to live in ways that seem right for them. He has enabled some people to [live without getting married], and he has enabled other people to [get married].
8 Mondom pedig a nem házasoknak és az özvegyasszonyoknak, hogy jó nékik, ha úgy maradhatnak, mint én is.
Now I want to say this to you unmarried people and to you whose spouses have died: It would be good for you to remain [unmarried] as I am.
9 De ha magukat meg nem tartóztathatják, házasságban éljenek: mert jobb házasságban élni, mint égni.
But if you cannot control your [sexual desires] [EUP], you should get married. It is better to be married [so that you can satisfy your sexual desires with your spouse] than to constantly have a strong desire [EUP] [for sexual relations].
10 Azoknak pedig, a kik házasságban vannak, hagyom nem én, hanem az Úr, hogy az asszony férjétől el ne váljék.
And now I will give a command for [believers who are] married. This is not a command from me alone; it also comes from the Lord Jesus. You married women must not (separate from/divorce) your husbands!
11 Hogyha pedig elválik is, maradjon házasság nélkül, vagy béküljön meg férjével; és a férj se bocsássa el a feleségét.
But if any of you do that, you must remain unmarried, or else you should be reconciled with your husband [and live with him again]. Similarly, men must not (separate from/divorce) their wives.
12 Egyebeknek pedig én mondom, nem az Úr: Ha valamely atyafinak hitetlen felesége van, és ez vele akar lakni, el ne bocsássa azt.
Now I say this to the rest of you, [to those who became believers after they were married. This is what] I [am saying], not what the Lord [has commanded]. If someone has a wife who is not a believer, if she is willing to keep living with him, he must not divorce her.
13 És a mely asszonynak hitetlen férje van, és ez vele akar lakni, el ne bocsássa azt.
Similarly, if a woman has a husband who is not a believer, if he is willing to keep living with her, she must not divorce him.
14 Mert meg van szentelve a hitetlen férj az ő feleségében, és meg van szentelve a hitetlen asszony az ő férjében, mert különben a ti gyermekeitek tisztátalanok volnának, most pedig szentek.
[I say that] because God has set apart every woman’s unbelieving husband [for himself] because of his wife [being a believer], and God has set apart every man’s unbelieving wife [for himself] because of her husband [being a believer]. If that were not true, [God would consider] their children unacceptable. But, the fact is that [God does consider] them acceptable to him.
15 Ha pedig a hitetlen elválik, ám váljék el; nem vettetett szolgaság alá a keresztyén férfiú, vagy asszony az ilyen dolgokban. De békességre hívott minket az Isten.
However, if a woman’s husband who is not a believer or a man’s wife who is not a believer wants to leave, let [him or her] do so. The husband or wife who is a believer should not force the other one to stay. God has chosen us in order that we may live peacefully.
16 Mert mit tudod, te asszony, ha megmentheted-e a férjedet; vagy mit tudod, te férfiú, ha megmentheted-e a feleségedet?
[You women believers should allow your unbelieving spouses to leave you if they want to], because there is no way that you can be sure that God will save your husband if you stay together [RHQ] (OR, perhaps God will save your husband if you stay together.) Similarly, you men [who are believers], there is no way that you can be sure that God will save your wives if you stay together [RHQ] (OR, perhaps God will save your wives if you stay together.)
17 Csak a mint kinek-kinek adta az Isten, a mint kit-kit elhívott az Úr, úgy járjon. És minden gyülekezetben ekképen rendelkezem.
However, each person should continue in the status that the Lord gave him, the status that he had when the Lord called him [to belong to him]. That is the rule that I tell people in all the congregations [where I speak].
18 Körülmetélten hivatott el valaki? ne fedezze el azt; körülmetéletlenül hivatott el valaki? me metélkedjék körül.
If a man had already been circumcised [RHQ] when he became a Christian, he should not [try to pretend that he is not] circumcised. If a man had not been circumcised [RHQ] before he became a Christian, he should not become circumcised.
19 A körülmetélkedés semmi, a körülmetéletlenség is semmi; hanem Isten parancsolatainak megtartása.
[You should not try to change your status that way], because it means nothing [to God] whether someone is circumcised or not. What is important is that we obey what God has commanded.
20 Kiki a mely hivatásban hívatott el, abban maradjon.
[Generally], each person should remain in the status that he had when he became a Christian.
21 Szolgai állapotban hivattattál el? Ne gondolj vele, sőt ha szabad lehetsz is, inkább élj azzal.
If one of you was a slave when you [(sg)] became a Christian [RHQ], do not be concerned about it. However, if you get an opportunity to be free, do [what you need to do to become free].
22 Mert az Úrban elhívott szolga az Úrnak szabadosa; hasonlóképen a ki szabadságban hívatott el, Krisztusnak szolgája.
[Do not worry about your previously being a slave], because those who were slaves before they became Christians, the Lord has freed them [from Satan’s control]. Similarly, those who were not slaves before they became Christians, [it is as though] [MET] they are Christ’s slaves [because they must do what he tells them to do] [MET].
23 Áron vétettetek meg, ne legyetek embereknek szolgái.
[Christ] paid a price to buy you [when he died for you]. So do not [act as if you are evil people’s] slaves [by doing the evil things that they tell you to do].
24 Kiki a miben elhívatott, atyámfiai, abban maradjon meg az Isten előtt.
My fellow believers, [I repeat that in general] each believer, being in fellowship with God, should continue in the status that he had before he became a Christian.
25 A hajadonok felől nincs ugyan parancsolatom az Úrtól, de tanácsot adok úgy, mint a ki irgalmasságot nyertem az Úrtól, hogy hitelreméltó legyek.
Now [I will answer your question] about women who have never married. There is nothing that the Lord has commanded me [to write about them], but I am writing this to tell you what I think [is best], because the Lord [Jesus] has mercifully enabled me to [say] what is reliable.
26 Úgy ítélem azért, hogy jó ez a jelenvaló szükség miatt, hogy tudniillik jó az embernek úgy maradni.
There are a lot of distressing events [happening] now (OR, that will soon happen), so I think that it is better for people to remain in the marital status that they now have.
27 Feleséghez köttettél? Ne keress elválást. Megszabadultál feleségedtől? Ne keress feleséget.
If any of you [men] are married [RHQ], do not try to divorce your wife. If any of you are unmarried [RHQ], do not seek a wife.
28 De ha veszel is feleséget, nem vétkezel; és ha férjhez megy is a hajadon, nem vétkezik; de az ilyeneknek háborúságuk lesz a testben. Én pedig kedveznék néktek.
But if [any of] you [men] get married, you have not committed a sin [by doing that]. Likewise, if an unmarried woman gets married, she has not committed a sin [by doing that]. However, those who get married will have many troubles, [so I am urging you to remain unmarried in order that] you may not experience [such troubles].
29 Ezt pedig azért mondom, atyámfiai, mert az idő rövidre van szabva ezentúl, azért a kiknek van is feleségök, úgy legyenek, mintha nem volna.
My fellow believers, this is what I mean: There is not much time left [before Christ returns]. So, from now on those men who are married should [devote themselves to serving the Lord as much] as they would if they were not married.
30 És a kik sírnak, mintha nem sírnának; és a kik vígadnak, mintha nem vígadnának; a kik vesznek, mintha semmijök sem volna.
Those who are sad should [devote themselves to serving the Lord as much] as they would if they were not sad. Those who are rejoicing [should devote themselves to serving the Lord as much] as they would if they were not joyful.
31 És a kik élnek e világgal, mintha nem élnének: mert elmúlik e világnak ábrázatja.
Those who are buying things should [devote themselves to serving the Lord as much] as they would if they did not possess those things. Because this world as it exists now will soon be gone, those who are actively involved in the affairs of this life [should not devote all their time] to be involved in those things.
32 Azt akarnám pedig, hogy ti gond nélkül legyetek. A ki házasság nélkül van, arra visel gondot, a mi az Úré, mimódon kedveskedhessék az Úrnak;
[Another reason why] I [encourage you to remain unmarried is that] I desire that none of you be anxious [about the everyday affairs of this life]. Unmarried men are [able to be primarily] concerned about serving the Lord Jesus and trying to please him.
33 A ki pedig feleséget vett, a világiakra visel gondot, mimódon kedveskedhessék a feleségének.
But married men are [often] greatly concerned about the affairs of this life. Specifically, they are concerned about pleasing their wives.
34 Különbözik egymástól az asszony és a hajadon. A ki nem ment férjhez, az Úr dolgaira visel gondot, hogy szent legyen mind testében, mind lelkében; a ki pedig férjhez ment, a világiakra visel gondot, mimódon kedveskedhessék a férjének.
So their thinking is divided. Unmarried women are [able to be] concerned about serving the Lord. They want to set apart their minds and their bodies for serving the Lord. But married women are [often] concerned about the affairs of this life. Specifically, they are concerned about how to please their husbands.
35 Ezt pedig a ti hasznotokra mondom; nem hogy tőrt vessek néktek, hanem hogy illendőképen és állhatatosan ragaszkodjatok az Úrhoz háboríthatatlanul.
I am telling you this for your own good. I am not saying it in order to restrict you. Instead, I am saying it in order that you may do what is proper and be able to serve the Lord without being distracted {things distracting you}.
36 De ha valaki szégyennek tartja az ő hajadon leányára, ha virágzó idejét múlja, és úgy kell történnie, a mit akar, azt cselekedje, nem vétkezik; menjenek férjhez.
[Some of you men have asked about your unmarried daughters]. [I suggest that] if any man thinks that he may be treating his daughter unfairly [by keeping her from marrying], and if it is already past [the right] time for her to get married, and if he thinks that she ought to be married, he should do what he wants to do. He should let her get married. He will not be sinning [by doing that].
37 A ki pedig szilárdan áll a szívében és a szükség nem kényszeríti, hatalma pedig van a tulajdon akarata fölött, és azt végezte el szívében, hogy megtartja hajadon leányát, jól cselekszi.
But if a man feels absolutely sure [that it is better that his daughter not get married], and if nothing is forcing [her to get married], and if he is free to do what he decides to do on the matter, if he decides that his daughter should not get married, he is doing what is right in [keeping her from marrying].
38 Azért, a ki férjhez adja, az is jól cselekszi, de a ki nem adja férjhez, még jobban cselekszi.
So any man who decides that his daughter should get married is doing what is good, but if he decides that she should not get married, he is doing something even better. (OR, [Some of you men have asked about the women to whom you are engaged to marry]. If any man thinks that he may be treating that woman unfairly [by not marrying her], and if it is already past [the right] time for her to get married, and if he wants to marry her very much, he should do what he wants to do. He should marry her. He will not be sinning [by doing that]. But if a man feels absolutely sure [that it is better] for him not to get married, and if nothing is forcing [them to get married], if he is free to make his own decision on the matter, if he decides not to get married, he is doing what is right. So any man who decides that he should get married to the woman he is engaged to is doing what is good, but if he decides that he should not get married, he is doing something even better.)
39 Az asszonyt törvény köti, míg férje él, de ha férje meghal, szabadon férjhez mehet, a kihez akar, csakhogy az Úrban.
Women must remain married to their husbands while their husbands are still alive. But if a woman’s husband dies, she is free to marry any [unmarried] man whom she wants to marry, but he must belong to the Lord.
40 De boldogabb, ha úgy marad, az én véleményem szerint; pedig hiszem, hogy bennem is Istennek lelke van.
However, I think that she will be happier if she does not marry again. And I believe that the Spirit of God is [directing] me [as I say that].
