Epheser 5

1 So folget nun dem Vorbild Gottes, als geliebte Kinder,

(Imitate/Behave like) God, because he loves you who are [as though you were] [SIM] his children.

2 und wandelt in Liebe, wie auch Christus euch geliebt hat, und hat sich selbst für euch hingegeben als Gabe und Opfer an Gott zum Dufte süßen Geruchs.

Do everything in a way that shows that you love [people], just like Christ loved us and willingly died for us. He offered himself [to God as a sacrifice] that was very pleasing to God, [just like Jewish priests offered] sweet-smelling [animal] sacrifices to God [MET].

3 Unzucht und jede Art Unreinigkeit oder Habsucht soll man auch nicht dem Namen nach unter euch kennen, so wie es Heiligen ziemt;

Do not commit any kind of immoral act [DOU], and do not desire more things than you need. Do not [act in such a way that others could] even (spread rumors/talk) about your acting in such ways, because it is not appropriate/fitting for God’s people to do such things.

4 ebenso Gemeinheit, Possenreden und leichtfertiges Geschwätz, was unschicklich ist; statt dessen vielmehr Danksagung.

Do not use obscene/shameful language when you talk to people. Do not talk foolishly. Do not use vulgar/indecent language, because it is not appropriate/fitting that God’s people should talk like that. Instead, tell people how much you thank [God for all he does for you].

5 Daran denket in der Erkenntnis, daß kein Unzüchtiger oder Unreiner oder Geizhals, das heißt Götzendiener, im Reiche des Christus und Gottes ein Erbe hat.

You can be sure of this: No person who is sexually immoral or who acts indecently/shamefully will be among those people whom God rules over [MET] [in heaven]. Neither will those who desire more things than they need. Such people worship their possessions [instead of worshipping God].

6 Niemand soll euch betrügen mit eitlen Worten; um solcher Dinge willen kommt der Zorn Gottes über die Söhne des Ungehorsams;

Do not let anyone deceive you by suggesting that [God will really] not [punish people who commit such sins], because God certainly will punish [MTY] those who habitually disobey him [by doing such things].

7 so werdet denn nicht ihre Genossen;

So, do not commit the same kinds of deeds that such people do,

8 denn ihr waret einst Finsternis, jetzt aber seid ihr Licht im Herrn; so wandelt als Kinder des Lichtes,

because formerly you [did not know God’s truth] [MET], [as those who] are in darkness [do not know what is around them]. But now [it is as though] you are in the light [MET] [because you know God’s truth] because of your relationship with the Lord [Jesus]. So do those things that those who know God’s truth [MET] should do.

9 denn die Frucht des Lichtes besteht in allerlei Güte, Gerechtigkeit und Wahrheit,

Keep in mind that [as] light [MET] causes [good things to grow], those who know God’s truth should do those things that are good, righteous, and honest.

10 prüfend, was da sei dem Herrn wohlgefällig,

And as [you do that], try (to find out/to discover) what pleases the Lord.

11 und lasset euch nicht ein mit den unfruchtbaren Werken der Finsternis, sondern machet sie zu Schanden.

Do not do the worthless deeds that the people (who are in [spiritual] darkness/who do not know God’s truth) [MET] do. Instead, let others know that those people’s deeds are worthless.

12 Was da in der Heimlichkeit von ihnen geschieht, davon auch nur zu reden ist schändlich.

It is shameful for God’s people to even talk [among themselves about] those evil deeds that evil people do secretly and habitually.

13 Vom Lichte zu Schanden gemacht wird alles offenbar;

But when [God’s people rebuke those evil people about their deeds, it will be clear/evident how evil their deeds really are, just like] everything exposed to the light becomes visible {as light [MET] reveals everything [that we cannot see in the darkness]}.

14 denn wo etwas geoffenbart wird, da ist Licht. Darum heißt es: Wache auf, der du schläfst, und stehe auf von den Toten; so wird dir der Christus leuchten.

[Just like something on which a light shines reflects that light] [MET], [whoever has learned God’s truth reveals that truth to others]. That is why [we believers] say this: You who are not aware of your sins, become aware of them [MET]! It is as though you are sound asleep, so wake up! Be like dead people who are becoming alive again! Christ will cause you to know God’s truth, just like a light [MET] that shines causes people to know what is in the darkness.

15 So sehet nun genau zu, wie ihr wandelt; nicht wie Unweise, sondern wie Weise;

So be very careful how you behave. Do not behave as foolish people do. Instead, behave as wise people do.

16 den Augenblick auskaufend, weil die Tage böse sind;

Use your time carefully, because these days [MTY] [people do] extremely evil [deeds].

17 darum werdet nicht thöricht, sondern sehet ein, was der Wille des Herrn sei.

So do not be foolish. Instead, understand what the Lord [Jesus] wants you to do, [and do it]!

18 Und berauschet euch nicht mit Wein, das führt zum Verderben. Sondern werdet voll Geistes,

Do not become drunk by drinking alcoholic drinks, since people are unable to control their behavior when they are drunk. Instead, let [God’s] Spirit control your [behavior] at all times [MTY].

19 redend unter einander in Psalmen und Hymnen und geistlichen Liedern, singend und spielend dem Herrn mit eurem Herzen,

Sing to each other (Psalms/songs [with words from the] Scriptures), sing [other] songs [that the congregation knows], and songs [that God’s] Spirit [gives you]. Sing these Psalms and other songs sincerely to [praise] the Lord [Jesus].

20 dankend allezeit für alles im Namen unseres Herrn Jesus Christus Gott dem Vater.

At all times thank God, who is our [heavenly] Father, for everything, especially for what the Lord Jesus Christ [MTY] [has done for you].

21 Seid einander unterthan in der Furcht Christus'.

[Humbly] submit yourselves to each other because you reverence Christ, [who is our example].

22 Die Frauen je ihren Männern als wie dem Herrn;

Because husbands have authority over [MET] their wives, just as all of us believers form one group [under the authority of] Christ, you women should submit yourselves to [the authority of your] husbands just as you submit yourselves to the Lord [Jesus]. He is the one who saves all his people [from the guilt of their sins].

23 denn der Mann ist das Haupt der Frau ebenso wie der Christus ist das Haupt der Gemeinde, als der da ist der Erlöser des Leibes.

24 Aber wie die Gemeinde dem Christus unterthan ist, so seien es die Frauen den Männern in allen Stücken.

Just like all believers submit themselves to [the authority of] Christ, the women must submit themselves completely to the [authority of] their husbands.

25 Ihr Männer, liebet die Weiber, wie auch der Christus die Gemeinde geliebt und sich selbst für sie dargebracht hat,

Each of you husbands, love your wife as Christ loved all of [us who would become] believers, with the result that he willingly died for our sake,

26 damit er sie heilige, nachdem er sie gereinigt durch das Wasserbad mit dem Worte,

in order that he might (set us apart for himself/cause us to belong to him). That is, by [revealing his] message [to us], he wanted to [remove the guilt of our sin, just like people remove dirt from something] by washing it [MET].

27 damit er für sich selbst die Gemeinde herrlich herstelle, ohne Flecken, Runzel oder dergleichen, daß sie vielmehr sei heilig und ohne Fehl.

[Christ did that] in order that he might cause all of us believers to be a glorious group of people that belong to him, people that do not have any moral flaws/imperfections, but instead might be completely pure [DOU] when he gathers us (to his presence/to himself).

28 So sind die Männer schuldig ihre Frauen zu lieben, wie ihre eigenen Leiber. Wer seine eigene Frau liebt, der liebt sich selbst.

In the same way, each man should love his wife as he loves his own body. Men who love their wives, [it is as though] they love themselves.

29 Denn niemand hat noch sein eigenes Fleisch gehaßt; sondern er hegt und pflegt es, wie auch der Christus die Gemeinde,

This is shown by the fact that no one ever hated his own body. Instead, he feeds his own body and cares for it, just like Christ also cares for all us believers. We have become one group of believers that belongs to him [MET].

30 weil wir Glieder seines Leibes sind.

31 Dafür verläßt ein Mensch Vater und Mutter und hängt seinem Weibe an, und werden die zwei Ein Fleisch sein.

[What someone has written in the Scriptures about people who marry is this], [When] a man and [a] woman [marry], they should ([permanently] leave/no longer live with) their fathers and mothers. They should be joined [as husband and] wife, and the two of them shall become [as though they were] one [MET] person.

32 Dieses Geheimwort ist schwer; ich deute es von Christus und der Gemeinde.

It is very difficult to understand the meaning of these things that God has now revealed to me, but [I am telling you that] those words [also] refer to [the relationship between] Christ and all those who belong to him.

33 Doch bei euch soll jeder einzelne seine Frau so lieben, wie sich selbst; damit auch die Frau den Mann fürchte.

However, as for you(pl), each man must love his wife just as he loves himself, and each woman must respect her husband.