< Proverbs 23 >
1 When you sit down to eat a meal with a (government official/king), think carefully about what (OR, who) is in front of you.
When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider well who is before thee;
2 [Even] if you (have a big appetite/want to eat a lot of food), restrain yourself.
and put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.
3 Do not want to eat [a lot of] his fine food, because he may be trying to trick you.
Be not desirous of his dainties; for they are deceitful food.
4 Do not [cause yourself to become very tired by] working very hard to become rich; be wise and stop doing that,
Weary not thyself to become rich; cease from thine own intelligence:
5 because as soon as you look [MTY] at [all the money that you have acquired], it will be gone; it will [disappear as if it] suddenly grew wings [SIM] and flew up into the sky like an eagle.
wilt thou set thine eyes upon it, it is gone; for indeed it maketh itself wings and it flieth away as an eagle towards the heavens.
6 [If] someone who is stingy [invites you to a meal], do not eat [a lot of] his fine food,
Eat thou not the food of him that hath an evil eye, neither desire thou his dainties.
7 because he will be thinking about how much [the food cost that you are eating]. He [will] say to you, “Eat and drink all that you want!”, but that is not what he [will] really be thinking.
For as he thinketh in his soul, so is he. Eat and drink! will he say unto thee; but his heart is not with thee.
8 [When you realize what he is really thinking, it will cause you to want to] vomit what you have eaten; and your kind words [telling him that you are enjoying the meal] will be wasted.
Thy morsel which thou hast eaten must thou vomit up, and thou wilt have wasted thy sweet words.
9 (Do not [waste time by]/It is useless) talking to foolish people; they will [only] despise the wise things that you say.
Speak not in the ears of a foolish [man], for he will despise the wisdom of thy words.
10 Do not [steal someone’s property by] removing a boundary marker that has been there for a long time, and do not take for yourself the land that belongs to orphans,
Remove not the ancient landmark; and enter not into the fields of the fatherless:
11 because Yahweh is strong, and he is [like] a relative that has the responsibility to defend them, he will [stand up in court and] argue for them and against you.
for their redeemer is mighty; he will plead their cause against thee.
12 Pay attention to what [your teachers] teach you, and try to learn from the wise things that they say.
Apply thy heart unto instruction, and thine ears to the words of knowledge.
13 Do not refuse to discipline your children; if you punish/spank them, it will not cause them to die,
Withhold not correction from the child; for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die:
14 and it may save them from [going to] the place where dead people are. (Sheol )
thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from Sheol. (Sheol )
15 My son/child, if you [SYN] become wise, I [SYN] will be very happy.
My son, if thy heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine;
16 I [SYN] will rejoice when I hear you [SYN] say what is right/wise.
and my reins shall exult, when thy lips speak right things.
17 Do not envy sinful people; instead, revere Yahweh all of your life.
Let not thy heart envy sinners, but [be thou] in the fear of Jehovah all the day;
18 [If you do that], you will be happy in the future, and [God] will certainly [do for you what you are] confidently expecting him to do.
for surely there is a result, and thine expectation shall not be cut off.
19 My son/child, listen carefully to me and become wise, and think about (all that you do/your behavior).
Thou, my son, hear and be wise, and direct thy heart in the way.
20 Do not associate with those who drink a lot of (wine/strong drink) or with those who (are gluttons/eat more than they should),
Be not among winebibbers, among riotous eaters of flesh.
21 because drunkards and gluttons will become poor; and if all that you do is eat and sleep, you will [soon] (be wearing rags/not have any money to buy clothes).
For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty; and drowsiness clotheth with rags.
22 Pay attention to what your father tells you, and (do not neglect/take care of) [LIT] your mother when she is old.
Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.
23 Try to know/learn what is wise, and get good instruction and understanding; and do not throw those things away.
Buy the truth, and sell it not; wisdom, and instruction, and intelligence.
24 Righteous [children] will cause their parents to be very happy; those whose children are wise are proud of them.
The father of a righteous [man] shall greatly rejoice, and he that begetteth a wise [son] shall have joy of him:
25 [Do what will] cause your father to be glad and enable your mother [also] to be happy.
let thy father and thy mother have joy, and let her that bore thee rejoice.
26 My son, heed what I say to you, and allow what I do to be an example for you.
My son, give me thy heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.
27 Prostitutes and immoral women [DOU] are [like] [MET] a deep pit or a well [that you may fall into].
For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.
28 They wait [for you] like robbers [SIM], and they cause many men to (be unfaithful to/have sex with women who are not) their wives.
She also lieth in wait as a robber, and increaseth the treacherous among men.
29 I will tell you [RHQ] what kind of people are always miserable and sad. I will tell you [RHQ] which people are always causing arguments/quarrels and who are always complaining. I will tell you [RHQ] who are injured in fights and whose eyes are always red/bloodshot.
Who hath woe? Who hath sorrow? Who contentions? Who complaining? Who wounds without cause? Who redness of eyes?
30 [It is] those who drink a lot of wine, who try drinking other kinds of strong drinks.
— They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to try mixed wine.
31 Do not look with pleasure at red wine that looks nice, and which sparkles when it is [poured out] into cups, and which tastes good as you drink it,
Look not upon the wine when it is red, when it sparkleth in the cup, and goeth down smoothly:
32 because the next morning [you will feel like] you have been bitten by a poisonous snake [DOU].
at the last it biteth like a serpent, and stingeth like an adder.
33 You [SYN] will [think that you are] seeing strange/weird things, and you [SYN] will not be able to think clearly or speak clearly.
Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thy heart shall speak froward things;
34 You will think you are in a ship that is tossing on the sea; you be like [SIM] someone who is trying to sleep when the ship is rolling from one side to the other.
and thou shalt be as he that lieth down in the midst of the sea, and as he that lieth down upon the top of a mast:
35 You will say, “[I think that] someone struck me, but he did not hurt me; he hit me, but I did not feel it. When will I (wake up/feel normal again) in order that I can drink some more wine?”
— “They have smitten me, [and] I am not sore; they have beaten me, [and] I knew it not. When shall I awake? I will seek it yet again.”